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When Not to Treat a Colleague as You’d Want to Be Treated

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Roger was a young rising star. He had always been successful, and prided himself on his brains, speed, and ability to deliver impressive results. His company had just appointed him to take over a troubled country operation in Latin America. He did a brilliant job turning things around financially. But he then got completely stymied by a group of angry employees who started a covert revolution in the ranks — and almost succeeded in getting him fired.

Coaching Roger, I suggested he was a bunny rabbit who had just been attacked by a horde of guinea pigs. When he looked bemused, I suggested that the world is made up of two sorts of people, but only one sort would agree.

Bunny rabbits are convinced that everyone is more or less the same: human, and much like themselves. They bounce through life in a relatively self-sufficient way, open to others but not living their lives in reaction to them. Their deep-seated belief that others are mostly like them leads them to treat others as they would like to be treated themselves — an approach they take pride in as an enlightened and open-minded management approach.

Roger was a classic rabbit. He was a highly ethical, performance-driven manager, and assumed everyone else was (or should be) too. He gave his employees exactly the kind of hands-off autonomy that he had always appreciated. But when they didn’t deliver, he thought they were shirking their responsibilities and started to put the pressure on. It never occurred to him that what the team really wanted was his attention, his direction or, worst of all, his love. When he judged them for under-performing, their admiration quickly turned to fear — and anger.

Guinea pigs have a tendency of comparing themselves to others — and rabbits don’t. Rabbits are busy chasing some internal mission, vision, or benchmark. Guinea pigs tend to measure themselves against others. And when they compare to a perceived rabbit, they feel lesser in some way. This creates a range of reactions ranging from admiring, to judgmental, to angrily jealous.

Guinea pigs often love rabbits, at first. They are ready to admire and follow and emulate. They put the bunny on a bit of pedestal. They feel cuter, fluffier, and bouncier in their company. They can make for loyal friends, partners, or colleagues, as long as they feel cared for and recognized. But there is often an underlying — and largely unconscious — set of expectations in the relationship that many rabbits won’t have recognized. So when a problem arises and the rabbit becomes less cuddly-bunny and more fighting-hare, guinea pigs may feel that their diligent loyalty has been betrayed, and turn angry. And angry guinea pigs can become vengeful and dangerous. They can ally with other resentful guinea pigs and descend on the unwitting bunny in a sometimes-lethal swoop.

What about the bunny? Since a rabbit’s basic assumption is that they are like anyone else, they never fully understand how guinea pigs think. It’s a huge blind spot. They under-estimate how much a guinea pig looks up to them and expects of them. They usually get into trouble with guinea pigs when they try to end or question relationships, or strike out more independently, or start to shine too brightly on their own. Success, which usually comes easily to bunny rabbits, exacerbates the initial positioning — the guinea pig feels like more of a guinea pig, the bunny rabbit begins to feel uncomfortable in their presence, and not understanding what is going on, finds refuge in the company of other rabbits. This exacerbates the guinea pig’s feelings of exclusion.

Another coaching client, whom I’ll call Maria, found herself encircled by guinea pigs in a big new job she had recently taken on, running a national sales operation in the UK. She was a very successful and highly regarded executive who had recently changed firms. She now managed several people who used to be her peers in the industry. A small number of them resented her success, felt that she was not paying enough attention to them, and worked in unison to make life difficult for her. The angrier and more demanding they became, the more Maria retreated behind emails, avoiding direct contact with them, and the more she focused on the rest of the team — fellow rabbits who were thrilled to have such an experienced and empowering leader on board. This made the guinea pigs go into loud, and united, over-drive. Management saw this as Maria’s key leadership challenge — getting her whole team on board.

So how do you deflect the almost inevitable conflicts that arise? First by noting that both these labels are situational. They describe a state of mind vis-a-vis others. You can be a bunny rabbit in most situations, but find yourself a guinea pig with a particular person or social group. I’m usually a pretty fluffy bunny, but there are a few people and situations that immediately put me in guinea pig mode. My tendency there is to attack, criticize, or find fault. I’ve learned that I’m usually the only person this sort of thing harms, as it cuts me off from more powerful people who would probably be happy to help me. Now, I try and calm the envy by consciously putting myself in bunny mode and reaching out to meet the person halfway. Most of the time, to my continuing guinea pig surprise, they do.

Most people tend to side with guinea pigs, assuming that bunny rabbits are as strong and invulnerable as they often come across.  People feel that the last thing a rabbit needs is sympathy. But having been the bunny in a few relationships, and having coached many more, I know just how hurt and confused a bunny gets when it is first envied — then attacked.

So what’s the solution?

  1. Rabbits need to:
    1. Recognize that guinea pigs may require more support, empathy and encouragement than other rabbits.
    2. Understand that your impact on a guinea pig is many times greater than you imagine.
    3. That one of the keys to turn guinea pigs into rabbits is to reveal that you aren’t as perfect as you may seem to them.
  2. Guinea pigs need to:
    1. Acknowledge and recognize that they are projecting unrealistic images onto someone.
    2. Name the emotions underlying their judgement of the rabbits — is it fear, envy, jealousy, inferiority, a mix of all of these?
    3. Avoid making assumptions. Reach out to enough rabbits to realize that they are human too.

The challenge is that the solution comes far more easily to the (usually unsuspecting) rabbit than to the (situation-creating) guinea pig. It takes a lot for a guinea pig to confront a rabbit. But once a rabbit “gets it,” it costs them very little to adapt their behavior to be more inclusive and supportive of a guinea pig. And that’s often enough to bring out any guinea pig’s inner rabbit.

It’s in the interest of every rabbit in the world to help guinea pigs grow their ears. Otherwise, they come and bite off your tail.

It’s your choice.

 

source:https://hbr.org/2015/03/when-not-to-treat-a-colleague-as-youd-want-to-be-treated

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KATY PERRY AND OBAMA LOST MORE THAN 2 MILLION FOLLOWERS OVERNIGHT THANKS TO A NEW TWITTER RULE

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Celebrity accounts on Twitter have seen a big drop in numbers overnight, thanks to a rule change by the company.

Twitter announced on Wednesday that it would no longer include “locked” accounts in follower numbers in an effort to boost user trust in the service. Twitter locks accounts when they display a sudden change of behaviour, like sending lots of unsolicited replies.

According to social media analytics service Socialblade, the nine biggest Twitter accounts — Katy Perry, Justin Bieber, Barack Obama, Rihanna, Taylor Swift, Lady Gaga, Ellen Degeneres, Christiano Ronaldo and YouTube — all saw drops of more than 2 million followers each.

Here’s Katy Perry’s follow count — check out the sudden drop at the end:

Katy Perry
Katy Perry’s followers dropped by 2,816,619 on Friday.
 Social Blade

The size of the drops were not directly correlated to the amount of initial followers. Justin Timberlake rounds out the top 10 accounts with the biggest followings, but he’s lost around 1.8 million overnight.

Meanwhile Britney Spears (14th in terms of followers) did lose more than 2 million, and Twitter’s own corporate Twitter account (16th) lost more than 7 million.

Here’s Twitter’s follower count according to SocialBlade:

Twitter
Twitter saw the largest drop of all with 7,731,910.
 Social Blade

The most popular accounts have more than 100 million followers, and Donald Trump is far down the list with 53.1 million. His follow count remains relatively unscathed. He lost just 326,118 followers on Thursday, the day before most accounts saw a drop, and on Friday he regained 5,339 followers.

Here’s Donald Trump’s follow count:

Trump Twitter stats
Trump had a small loss on Thursday, but started regaining followers on Friday.
 Social Blade

Although losing 2 million followers is undoubtedly a significant drop, proportionally speaking it’s not necessarily huge. Katy Perry started off with 109 million followers, and a 2.8 million drop represents a decline of approximately 2.6%. Twitter initially warned that its culling of fake followers would affect about 6% of all follows, so Perry actually may have got off lightly.

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SAPIEN NETWORK’S VISION TO BUILD WEB 3.0: A LOOK AT THEIR ROADMAP

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Much has been said about blockchain potential to revolutionize the internet and usher in a new age of interconnectedness — one characterized by fairness, equality, privacy and security, popularly termed as “Web 3.0”. Several projects are building the infrastructure to enable this transition, of which the social media experience is an integral part.

Sapien Network, which has been building a decentralized social platform that gives power back to end-users, is one of those projects. Social platforms have enormous influence in shaping the opinions of the masses, and are unfairly designed in favor of the tech companies behind it.

With its utility token SPN, Sapien hopes to let users define the value of content, advertising influence and their overall social experience.

It’s no small task overhauling the web, however, and Sapien has been focused on developing the many underlying features that make up a radically new way of interacting online.

In Its Vision to Build Web 3.0, How Does Sapien Differ from Reddit and Steemit?

As is the case with other projects attempting to build Web 3.0, Sapien’s long-term goal is to build a tokenized version of a social platform that gives power to the users, which in turn allows them to combat misinformation, protect their data and secure their privacy through the use of tokens and decentralized governance mechanisms.

To that end, they are building an ecosystem of products in partnership with several other projects and third parties that will uphold the principles of the internet’s true intent: a platform for communication that cherishes free speech, privacy and democracy.

The current internet offers this to a degree, with platforms like Reddit and Steemit allowing users to share their opinions anonymously.

However, Sapien triumphs over Reddit by monetarily rewarding users for their content and curators for their moderation efforts, while also highlighting experts and their knowledge in certain fields. Additionally, there is a greater emphasis on users putting forth their ideas, rather than companies pushing their agenda.

With respect to Steemit, the advantage Sapien has is its Proof-of-Value consensus mechanism, which runs on the quantifiable value of content and reputation of communities. This is bolstered by the fact that it is also easier to create communities on Sapien’s platform.

Users are incentivized to act honestly through a reputation system, which also plays a part in platform governance, which we talk about later.

What users like best are tools that let them operate in the way they want and, knowing this, Sapien is also planning to implement public and private modes, and community tools, which lets them customize their social experience to their liking.

Indeed, customization is one of Sapien’s most salient features. These modes will allow users to choose either their real identity or a anonymous one, and this can be set according to the groups or subscriptions that one wishes to join.

When one switches between these groups, the private/public mode automatically toggles. In other words: one account, two different identities.

This is an important aspect in upholding a user’s privacy, which is an essential characteristic of Web 3.0. Of course, this privacy also extends to the chat systems, which are encrypted from end to end.

Not to be left unmentioned, Sapien’s marketplace allows users to buy goods on a peer-to-peer basis using their native tokens.

Sapien’s unique staking system also deserves a brief mention as content value is at the heart of the staking system, which is divided into various “pillars.” Each of the 8 pillars demands varying amounts of staked tokens, and grant different levels of user actions.

For example, the first level called “Access” allows user to perform only read-only actions, whereas staking more tokens into the “rewards engine” lets the user receive a greater amount of revenue from advertisements.

The system lets users decide how much they want to contribute and rewards them proportionally. The more a user stakes, the more they earn.

The reward engines will go live this month, letting users stake SPN for each action they take on the platform, such as creating HQ content, leaving comments, and voting on posts.

It is worth reading Sapien’s documentation on their staking system to get all the details on how it works.

The Sapien Network Roadmap Describes the Path Towards their Decentralized Vision

Consistent updates to keep the community informed about progress is a hallmark of a good project, and those interested in Sapien will be pleased to know that the team does so frequently on their blog.

As those posts will indicate, Sapien’s 2018 roadmap revolves around designing a user-friendly platform with an intuitive UI/UX, which we talk about shortly, and getting the word out that a decentralized social platform does exist and is ready for use.

Their overall roadmap stretches to 2020, around which time they hope to consistently add users to their platform. First, however, they must create a platform that can actually be used and this has been their focus in early 2018.

Sapien spent 2017 working on a private beta, developing Sapien into a blockchain application and completing the project’s whitepaper. Having done this, they felt confident enough to move onto the actual token sale, which conducted its first phase in Q1 2018.

What’s Next for Sapien in 2018

Sapien is taking the majority of the year to build the fundamental infrastructure for their platform and growing the user base. The following is an outline of their agenda for 2018.

Marketing, Brand Awareness and the Sapien Mobile App

Social platforms are a finicky endeavor. There were many before Facebook came into being, but none clicked in quite the same way as Facebook. A large part of a platform’s success comes down to word of mouth and a welcoming UI; and up and until Facebook, nothing had the same effect as Facebook’s news feed and the inviting red notification contrasted against a blue background.

The Sapien team knows that growing a user base is at the heart of their project’s success and has thus put a lot of effort into marketing and brand awareness.

The first half of 2018 was focused on marketing and UI/UX, described below. The former included airdrops, the Sapien rewards programcompetitions and a ceaseless effort by the team to educate the public on all of the different ways decentralized social platforms are better than current platforms. The Sapien team also implemented a payout to content creators and curators.

Being aware of the fact that most people use social media on their phones, Sapien released a mobile app version of the Sapien platform on June 14, which is a key development in creating growth. Additionally, they are also working on porting the platform to a dapp.

Naturally, marketing will have to be a continual effort, at least until Sapien’s adoption reaches critical mass. It is not the only project in this space, which is further reason as to why publicizing its uniqueness will be important. The team hopes to acquire 10,000 users every month by Q4 2018, which is a reasonable ambition.

UI/UX

For any service in which people are expected to spend a lot of their time, the actual experience of using the platform must be intuitive and unobstructive. Think Facebook, and the ease with which you can view updates from your friends, as opposed to MySpace or Orkut, which was extremely cumbersome by comparison.

That’s why the team has been working hard on perfecting the UI/UX of the Sapien platform.

Pictured below is a preview of the proposed update to the UI that is expected with Sapien’s next platform update. The clean approach draws the attention to the content, with easy accessibility to categories, filters and user account options.

Sapien Network UI
Proposed UI wireframe

The UI will continue to remain a subject of development efforts throughout 2018 and beyond.

2019 and Beyond

2019 is a whole different ball game for the project, shifting their focus from marketing to platform development and general refinement.

Democratized Autonomous Platform

A key feature of the Sapien platform is the Democratized Autonomous Platform (DAP) which is a mechanism that allows users to have their say on the project’s roadmap through a proposal system. SPN stakeholders will have the power to influence organizational decisions, suggest new features for the platform, and modify marketplace rewards.

The DAP will function on a staking mechanism and random set of users will be selected as validators. Furthermore, a reputation system exists to ensure that malicious actors are penalized for dishonest behaviour.

The ultimate goal is to create a system that is self-moderating and fully autonomous, where users themselves can decide what is best for the platform.

The team will be building the infrastructure for the DAP in Q1 2019.

Bolstering the Marketplace and Other User-Centric Features

The marketplace goes beyond just goods, as the SPN token plays the most important role in deciding how valuable a content is, and the more charitable goal of fighting fake news and loq quality content.

Creators receive tokens for worthwhile content from other users, and this removes the dependance on advertisements for revenue.  As Sapien grows more popular, the team wants to add to the list of available items on the marketplace, which will become the economic hub that defines the value of content creators.

This is expected to happen in Q2 2019.

Scaling to a Million Users

Growth remains one of the biggest challenges and pulling in developers will be critical in overcoming that challenge. By Q3 2019, the team hopes to open up the developer platform to third-party applications and integrations, which would mean that many more services and products could be built on top of the Sapien Network.

In tandem with their marketing efforts, this could put them on track to achieve their goal of optimizing the platform to scale, and add a million new users every month from Q4 2019, as they have stated in their roadmap.

For a detailed description of roadmap and features, we recommend reading Sapien’s whitepaper.

Past Successes Will Instill Confidence for Their Ambitious Goals

Despite the relative newness of the Sapien platform, the project has already established multiple partnerships and completed major milestones.

Most recently, Sapien partnered with Civic, the digital identity project, and was listed on LAToken. The list of collaborations extends to UC Berkeley’s Blockchain Lab, Rocket.Chat, Onfido, ComplyAdvantage and many more. The full list of partnerships can be viewed here.

The common theme among these partnership appears to be growth and utility for its users. Each one of the varied list of partners serves different purposes and helps build a robust decentralized social platform, who in collaboration with Sapien, expand the advantages of the platform.

For instance, ComplyAdvantage offers Anti-Money Laundering services for businesses to safely conduct their operations, Onfido offers biometrics for token sale security and Rocket.Chat offers a feature rich chat system.

Sapien has also checked off some notable milestones since the project really began its development cycle at the beginning of the year.

Most significant of all was the launch of the beta version of the marketplace and merchandise store. The marketplace was the first project of its kind to accept payments in native tokens, via Metamask, and allows users to purchase virtual and physical goods, including premium content, clothing and accessories.The team expects to add more goods to the store in the months to come.

We also mentioned the launch of the mobile app, which is available on both Android and iPhone.

Lastly, Sapien’s beta program, launched on April 30, allowed its ardent followers to test the platform and publish content, which resulted in the creation of over 7,000 posts and 150 micro-communities.

If they can continue to consistently develop and meet their goals, Sapien can very well reach their ambitious goal of building Web 3.0.

Conclusion

The sheer scale of Sapien’s efforts to overhaul the online social experience is made clear in their roadmap.

There are 2 major sides to their development efforts: marketing and infrastructure. The former is rather straightforward, given that a use case such is directly dependent on the user base. While marketing efforts may be an obvious necessity, it is no means easy and this is why Sapien is spending so many resources in raising awareness.

Infrastructure development is far more interesting, and arguably more important than marketing. Sapien has the potential to get several third parties and partners to deliver useful and creative products on the platform, which are created with end-users in mind. These end-users in turn purchase and support these features, further emphasized by elements of the platform like the Democratized Autonomous Platform.

The Web 3.0 may not be around the next corner, but it is coming, and it is platforms like the Sapien Network that will be beating a path towards it. With the successful implementation of user-centric features that preserve security, privacy and free speech, the Sapien network could be the platform that brings in the age where we are in control of our social media experience, and where we can decide what information is worth viewing and disseminating.

 

 

Source: Investinblockchain.com

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GOOGLE CHROME 69 ON ANDROID BRINGS NEW DOWNLOADS UI WITH RENAMING AND CHANGING DOWNLOADS FOLDER

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Google’s mobile web browser, Chrome, can do most of what everyone wants when it comes to navigating through a website. The engineers in Mountain View feel the application can be improved so much more and a lot of us within the community can agree. Last year, we found that Google was experimenting with a new “Chrome Home” feature that would redesign the new tab page, which has continued to evolve throughout this year. Still, the company has a long way to go before the Android version of Google Chrome reaches feature parity to its desktop counterpart. The latest activity in the Chromium Gerrit indicates that the application will soon let you rename files and choose a folder for downloads.

It was December of last year when our Editor-in-chief, Mishaal Rahman, revealed some pieces of information that he had uncovered with Google Chrome. First, we learned that Google was working on adding support for parallel downloading through their Google Chrome application. This was slated for release in version 64 of the application, but it was only being tested with the beta version of the application. The feature was to create 3 parallel jobs to speed up the download process, which has proven to increase download speeds from sources that support it.

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That same month we also discovered that work was being done to enhance the standard download routine in Google Chrome. Currently, when you click a link for something that is downloaded automatically, it goes into the “Downloads” folder without any consent from you. Maybe you wanted to rename that file or maybe you wanted it to go into another folder altogether. At the time it required you to be on the nightly branch of Google Chrome and enable the hidden chrome://flags#enable-downloads-location-changeflag, but now the feature has progressed.

These new options for downloading via Google Chrome are currently available in the developer and canary version of the web browser and is it actually enabled by default. It can be disabled with the DownloadHomeModern flag. However, at this time it seems like the ability to change the download folder isn’t currently working. You can see the new option in the screenshots below.

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